My Part-Time Job
Have to go to work shortly. What is my job? Driving mom and dad to the doctor. Yes, you are reading the blog of an unpaid chauffeur.
No, I don't mind. It gives me great pleasure to be able to do this for them. I do have the option of refusing, and they could go to see doctors out in Virginia instead. But we are hooked into the best medical care in the DC area by way of the best internist in the universe. I found our internist when I worked as an RN. Nurses that I respected said he was a good doctor, and they were right. He listens, takes everything seriously, is there when you need him, and gives great advice. Plus, he knows the best docs in DC and refers us to them when we need to see a specialist. We all - me, husband, all three kids, and my parents - see him. Husband and I had our first appointments with him back in the mid-80s. He knows our histories very well.
I wouldn't think of making my parents switch. My father especially has a complicated health history. Docs that don't know him tend to screw him up. Case in point - he fell and broke his neck in 2005. He was taken by ambulance to a Virginia hospital where our doc doesn't practice. We should have had him moved because he almost died as a result of the fact that they did not understand his medications and cardiac history. And they were stupid and uncaring and treated him like an old man who was about to kick the bucket so why should they bother anyway?*
I am not the most forward person, I don't like to be emotional in public, but these folks heard from me. And when I was through, they knew exactly what I thought of them.
My advice: If you have family members in the hospital, don't assume anything. Keep a close eye on them. You know you family member better than anyone. You can spot changes that will not be noticed by others - particularly those who are careless. Don't hesitate to point these things out and don't be afraid to be a PIA about it.
Have to run!
*Note: Good medical care is available in Virginia - we just had bad luck, which is why it's good to stick with docs you know.


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